salam

Is day-dreaming about sex haram?

salam

salam alaykom,

Imam alSadiq says: "Thinking about haram is haram".

But I remember reading in a risaleh (I believe it was sayyid Khemenaiy's, but please don't take my word for it) saying that thinking about something that is haram does not account for a sin.

reza

i agree with you reza

Bint Islam, when you think about something like sexuality for example you start developping the intention to do it. That is why it is forbidden.

Bint Islam, when you think about something like sexuality for example you start developping the intention to do it. That is why it is forbidden.

Forget these things. They will mislead you.

Bint Islam, when you think about something like sexuality for example you start developping the intention to do it. That is why it is forbidden.

Sorry for posting like the same message 1 billion times. I accidently clicked the mouse a billion times cuz the PC wasn't working.

hmmm, the line between haram and halal on the subject is blurred and quite thin. Again if it's obsessiveness with the subject than yes i guess it would be impermissable....but before you eat me for not stating a marji3, i want to say that this is MY opinion.....(ill quote marji3s soon..promise:) )

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Salamaleykom wr wb

We had a similar discussion before,but then the question was if one was asleep,and that is quite different.When you are asleep you are not aware,but daydreaming is when you are awake and concient.

the hadith states that you should not get close to zina (or sex).

thinking about sex is getting close to sex. therefor it would be haram!

why would you want to put these saitanic ideas in your mind anyway, you should be in rememberance of Allah, not in the remmeberance of that which Allah detests!

you should get rid of these satanic thoughts!!!

Thinking of haram may lead to haram, therefor it would be haram in threat of getting closer to haram, and doing the haram!

What does these mean?
1) al-imam
2) haram
3) reza mohd

which flag is jeehad4life burning?

I didnt mean for you to say the admin or this guy name. What al-imam means? For example it can mean happy chat.
and what is that forbidden, what has to do with sex, is it sex wothout love or something like that?
Thank you

Imam in Arabic means leader or one who the masses follow. But I don't think bro admin is either . Or are you? :sly:

Andres, "actions" and "things" in Islam are split into 4 branches (or is it 6?):

Halal
Haram
Musteheb
Makrooh

The first means it is permissable.
The second means it is forbidden
The third means that if you do it you will get rewarded, but if you don't you won't be punished.
The fourth means that if you don't do it you will be rewarded, but if you do it you won't be punished.

does that help

reza

so the x

That was the reason for the topic brother. Whether it is forbidden or not is a matter for scholars to decide. The whole job of an "Ayatollah" is to look through texts, scriptures, narrations and a whole list of criteria and determine whether an action or thing is forbidden or not (or something else).

From what I know, Imam Jafer Alsadiq (the Prophet's 4th great grandson) said: "Thinking about what is forbidden is forbidden".

So to use a condon is a sin like in the catholic religion, right?

I've seen programs on TV talking about that and I was surprised by some of the things I heard. I wouldn't honestly know though whether it is a sin or not, but to the best of my knowledge it isn't.

Any of the married members want to answer that. I guess the discussion falls under the category "There is no embarrasment in religion"

reza

ok, I´ll wait for the reply of anyone who wnats to answer that. In the catholic religion it is forbidden to masturbate. Is that forbidden to in Islam?
I would like that condoms were permitted because aids is killing lots of people. Using it may not let a child born but assures you (almost) that you dont die.
I´ve read a very ironic article in the newspaper. The Vatican has the biggest porn library in the world. Thats because they have every book they prohibit.

see this http://www.al-imam.net/forums/index.php?showtopic=306

reza

thanks, that question was very well answered!
I´ve never listened such a good answer

Salaam alaikum,

Most Scholars say that temporary forms of birth control are allowed, providing they don't damage the health of the person. In general permanent forms of birth control, like sterilization are forbidden. Permanently removing the ability to procreate, has been likened to removing an arm or leg. However, if there is a good reason for this, for example a woman can't have anymore children because it will kill her, then it is allowed for her to permanently remove the ability to have children.

WaSalaam, Hajar

thanks.
I thought scholars were some people that studied in schools.
When it is said "Scholars say.." it is meant some kind of priest that interpretate Allah´s words?

786
there are seven levels of purification.
the sixth is thought.
upon reaching this level one will not think bad thoughts.
most of us are still working in #one

7 levels of purification,

1- body ( clean body)
2- food and drink (halal food with halal money)
3- clothing (halal clothes with halal money)
4- talk (no bad words or lies or insults)
5- actions (no bad actions)
6- thought (no unclean thoughts)
7- intentions (All intention should be to Allah)

anytime you think about it, say authubillahe mine shaitane rageem
because shaitan is with you

786
be carefull who you let interprate Allahs words for you

assalamu `alaykum wa rahmatulah
I found the word "condom" itself in "A Code of Practice for Muslims in the West," though in the original Arabic "Fiqh lil Mughtaribin," a descriptive phrase was used rather than a single word for the concept. Here are some rulings that I have gleaned regarding birth control.

يجوزللمرأة استعمال العقاقير الطبية المانعة من الحمل، شرط أن لا تتضررمنها ضرراً بليغاً ، بلا �رق �ي ذلك بين رضا الزوج به وعدم رضاه.م
(ال�قه للمغتربين، الزواج، م#411)
It is permissible for a woman to use contraceptives (the pill) to prevent pregnancy, provided that it does not damage her health in a serious manner, irrespective of whether or not the husband has agreed to it. (A Code of Practice for Muslims in the West, Marriage, General Rules, #407)
يجوز للرجل استعمال الغطاء الواقي (الكبوت) للحدً من الانجاب، والأحوط وجوباً استحصال موا�قة زوجته على استعماله ذاك الغطاء الواقي.م
(ال�قه للمغتربين، شؤون الشباب، م #460)
It is permissible for a man to use the condom to prevent pregnancy; however, it is precautionarily obligatory that he should seek the consent of his wife to using it. (A Code of Practice for Muslims in the West, Youths' Issues, General Rules, #499)

Inshallah it helps.