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sarahds
post Oct 14 2003, 10:23 PM
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Hi,

I'm writing to ask for information and advice. I am considering conversion to Islam, my boyfriend is a Shi'a and we would like to get married and begin a life together. This is somewhat complicated by my heritage as a Christian, current loose faith in God and strong feminist beliefs. Please, if you have and words of wisdom, or books or articles you could recomend I would greatly appreciate it. I am interested in a woman's point of view.

thanks in advance

Sarah
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reza mohd
post Oct 14 2003, 11:12 PM
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salam sister and welcome to the board.

All I can say is that if you have any questions, ask away and I'll try to help you out as much as I can.

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post Oct 15 2003, 10:02 AM
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Salamaleykom and welcome,sarahds smile.gif

I'd be glad to help out,inshallah.

I am a woman myself (dont let my name throw you off wink.gif ) who found Islam about 7 years ago.I also like you used to be christian,so I kind of understand some of your thoughts regarding this.
Anything you need,just ask and Inshallah me or someone else will be able to answer you satisfying smile.gif

If you have something on your mind you feel is private,you could also use the PM,or send me an e-mail on the adress below smile.gif

One Q,what made you concider conversion to Islam?

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post Oct 19 2003, 04:32 PM
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Do u have to marry him?
u can change ur religion if u want.
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post Oct 19 2003, 09:59 PM
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no i don't have to marry him - i want to marry him - i am in love, we are in love and we have tried for two years to get awayfrom that - away from each other and move on with our respective lives - we keep comming back to each other and so we decided to try what we see as the much more difficult road... who knows where that'll get us...
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post Nov 13 2003, 12:01 AM
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salam,
i have been in ur shoes as well.
i have converted to islam, which i love dearly. my husband is also a shia and i was a cathloic.

i have a few websites that u can look up, but also i ask u to ask the man u love to help u as well.

he will love to show u and help u learn more about islam.

if u want to talk to me about my journey plzz send me mail.

www.islamwaysistersindex.com

www.khatoonnetwork.com

www.al_urash.net

www.islamfortoday.net

this showed help but it is important to focus on the shia islam as it differs from sunni...

look up shia muslim websites on ur search engine..

also learn about the prophet, his household, imam ali, fatima and all the 12 imams that is very very important is shia..

plzzzzz let me help u..

safiyaldarwish@yahoo.co.uk

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